When Should You Delete the Dating App on Your Phone, Once You’ve Met Someone Online?

If you have met someone online and things are going really well between you, at which point do you consider yourself to be in a “relationship” and how long do you wait before you stop using a dating app and delete your dating profile? Is it a mutual decision? Do you both delete your dating profiles at the same time? How long should you wait and how many dates should you have before you make this decision?

Once you start seeing someone regularly, most people will agree that you should wait for as long as it takes before you become “mutually exclusive”. It’s a conversation that you need to have with your partner and you then need to make a joint decision. There should be no exact parameters as to how long you wait, as it’s a decision that you and your partner need to make on your own and you should not be restricted to a certain time frame.

You certainly should not delete your dating profile after two or three dates, as that would be far too early. It’s highly likely that you are still chatting to other people at this stage and are yet to make a decision about the person you’ve just met. You may also be having fun at first and not even thinking about a relationship, but as soon as you both develop feelings and you’ve had a number of dates, it’s then that you should consider becoming mutually exclusive.

You might delete your dating profile because you are happy and don’t want to date anyone else, yet your partner is still dating other people, either because they are looking for something different to you or because you have not yet had that conversation which defines your relationship and allows you to express how you feel about you both keeping a dating app on your phone.

Dating apps can easily be downloaded again, but to take an app off your phone is a sign of commitment to your partner – you are letting go of your online presence. It also means that you are giving that person a fair chance and tells them that you are serious in wanting to take things further.

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